The dating scene has changed so much in the last decade or so that it is hard to even imagine the good old days when the nerves took the best of us and we just stayed in and watched our fav series, ditching our friends who’ve invited us out and just stayed in, in our cocoon of safety and comfort. Then again, not too much has changed in this area since so many are still dealing with the same issues and the same problems that the dating scene brings. Today, we have all kinds of apps and online helping hands that now, we can more easily find a partner to go, at least, on a date with. Before you go, it would be wise to have some set of rules in your mind so that the date goes smoother than it would actually go. We took some of the pop culture ideas, some psychological rules and behaviors and made up some of the rules that you can take on your casual date and seem as if you know what it is that you are doing. Here are 7 rules that can help you with your love life:
1) Keep an open mind
This one’s a simple one that is basically saying, be positive. If you don’t have an open mind and constantly keep having thoughts that you are not going to hook up, that the date is going to go terrible or something to this notion, then guess what? It will go in that direction. Think about the positive outcome, the kind that you would like to have and lock in your mind to it. Commit to this self-brainwash mantra and go with it. You will be amazed at the power of positive thinking. Meet sex contacts here.
2) Keep it simple.
Step by step. Stop thinking ahead and just stick to the KISS theory – keep it simple, stupid. When you’re not trying to impress or are not trying to go overboard with the date, your brain will start to relax and it will start saying to yourself: “I am worthy”. This notion of trying to be more than you actually are, stems from our own lack of confidence and we try to compensate with some over the hill behavior that is not in our nature of being. So, relax, kick back and keep it as simple as possible.
3) Be in the moment
This one is a primo suggestion and a rule that you should follow not just on dates but in life in general. When you are set on the moment at hand then what comes before you, you are handling it. You only have one challenge to take on, that’s it. With this kind of a mindset, you are being Continue reading 7 Rules For Casual Dating You Must Follow